Posted on November 24, 2009 by prairieguy
My blog normally includes articles written by me or others I find on the Internet about foster care, thus the title of my blog.
However I am so proud of the youth here in my hometown community of Fargo, North Dakota/Moorhead, Minnasota that I just have to share this story beyond our area.
In the fall of [...]
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Posted on October 12, 2009 by prairieguy
Thed US Department of Health & Human Service Adminsitration for Children & Family Services have released the data for states who made efforts to increase adoptions of “older youth” in the foster care system across the United States. It appears some states have made strong efforts to accomplish this as indicated by the incentive dollars [...]
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Posted on August 8, 2009 by prairieguy
This is the final of 3 blog entries in regards to the recent Boys Town Alumni Reunion Weekend (July 24-26, 2009).
After much effort to find a way to post this finally have gotten it up on Utube.
Many thanks goes to Jerry Webb (BT Class of 64) for recording this.
This is just a portion of the [...]
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Posted on July 30, 2009 by prairieguy
It has been said by many, including myself from time to time, that one cannot go home again. Well this past weekend I in fact did go home again. It is not your typical home but it was home for me for seven plus years of my youth.
I had spent the first eleven years of [...]
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Posted on July 21, 2009 by prairieguy
Early Thursday morning I will depart for Boys Town to attend my 40th class reunion. It is a trip I have looked forward to for the past year; though at times it appeared doubtful I would be able to make the trip. This is only the 3rd reunion I will be attending in 40 years [...]
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Posted on July 18, 2009 by prairieguy
Orphan, a new thriller about a demonic adopted child, has enraged adoptive parents who are calling for a boycott.
Melissa Faye Greene—mother of five orphaned kids recently wrote a blog entry on The Daily Beast advocating a boycott against this movie. I completely agree with her views as well as many other adoptive parents across the [...]
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Posted on July 18, 2009 by prairieguy
Below is a recent article in the Orlando Sentinal. This situation is not unique to Florida. However, please note there are many, many dedicated case workers in the field who give their all to children. Until those “bad apples” who put children at risk are dealt with by more than a hand slap stories such as [...]
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Posted on May 19, 2009 by prairieguy
New research supports a radical shift in child-welfare policy for the thousands of teens who ‘age out’ of foster care at age 18, only to face high rates of homelessness, unemployment and incarceration. The system is failing thousands of youth under their care each and every year, 29,000 youth faced aging out last year.
By Daniel [...]
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Posted on April 28, 2009 by prairieguy
Personal Note: When I read this article for the first time I cried for Gabriel. At age 7 he decided life was no longer worth living. It brought back to me memories of my own years in foster care.
By the age of 10 I had been in foster care since the day of my birth. [...]
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Posted on January 18, 2009 by prairieguy
The article below recently appeared in the newspaper for a project I began:
November 19th was a great day for former foster child turned author and activist Larry Adams of North Dakota.
It was also a tremendous day for local youth that unfortunately may need to enter foster care.
It was the culmination of the first drive to [...]
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Posted on January 6, 2009 by prairieguy
I read this article in the Detroit Free Press the other evening after getting my daily “foster care” alert. Reading Alex’s story made my chest swell up in pride for him and anyone who has been placed on the foster care merry-go-round and not allowed it to overwhelm them, make them want to make themselves a [...]
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Posted on January 1, 2009 by prairieguy
A few hours ago we turned the final page, read the last paragraphs and finally closed the book called 2008.
We know how dreadful a year it was in regards to our economy, many losing their jobs and homes, more people without health care, falling apart infrastructure and the list goes on and on. We know [...]
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Posted on December 29, 2008 by prairieguy
I find this story absolutely sickening, deplorable and sadas this boy’s life may already be destroyed as well as the family that adopted him in hopes of giving him a better life.
To tell the adoptive parents that for him to get help he must be given up…and in the end the system will just let [...]
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Posted on December 29, 2008 by prairieguy
I am a firm believer that though one may leave the foster care system the foster care system never leaves you.
One may go on with their lives, and they need to, but the system and one’s expereiences will always remain a part of you…one must learn however to not allow it to control them.
The article [...]
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Posted on December 29, 2008 by prairieguy
I think it is important for foster youth or foster alumni to read and hear about others who have gome through the system who have made it, who have not proclaimed themselves as victims.
Therefore I was delighted when I read the article velow in the Idaho Statesmen and felt the need to share it here [...]
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Posted on December 27, 2008 by prairieguy
From the mid 1850’s to to 1930 over 200,000 youth were moved by train across the United States. Many were adopted while others ended up in orphanages or other type of foster care.
In some cases their families knew of the move and in other cases the youth were just removed from the streets and placed [...]
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Posted on December 17, 2008 by prairieguy
How could the system allow such a travesty to happen…and they wonder why youth involved with the system may turn out, in their words, bad! Do they think of the potential damage they are causing to this boy? Cases such as this absolutely disgusts me and is but more proof the system needs dramatic overhaul!!!
Law [...]
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Posted on June 13, 2008 by prairieguy
This was sent to me by a youth who has been in foster care for the past 7 years and will age out next March with no family or support network to go to. It breaks my heart that things I expereinced and thoughts I had over 40 years ago remain a constant in so [...]
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Posted on June 11, 2008 by prairieguy
The United States Foster Care System
FY2006 Foster Care Data
The U. S. Department of Health & Human Services Administration for Children & Families collects data each year from the states as to their foster care system. This, along with other resources provide for the base of this analysis. There is usually a 2 year lapse in [...]
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Posted on December 23, 2007 by prairieguy
I want to take this early morning opportunity to wish each of you, my readers, the full richness of the Spirit, Joy and Blessings of the Christmas Season!
As you rush to complete those last minute details in preparation for the day I pray each will take a moment to remember those who are less fortunate than [...]
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